Double Standards
We had a nice weekend, relaxing and not too stressful. I finally went on a little run. He did 8 miles and I did 2 for my first time in a year. My legs were sore for the rest of the weekend but as of today the soreness is gone.
About double standards, when I want a hug or kiss and he is busy, he shakes me off and says "not now" or "later". When I am in the middle of cooking dinner or doing the dishes and he comes to give me a hug from behind or a kiss on the back of the neck, and I shake him off, he gets offended. Why can he get offended but when I am disregarded, I have to just understand and wait until he feels like throwing me a bone. Doesn't seem fair to me.
About double standards, when I want a hug or kiss and he is busy, he shakes me off and says "not now" or "later". When I am in the middle of cooking dinner or doing the dishes and he comes to give me a hug from behind or a kiss on the back of the neck, and I shake him off, he gets offended. Why can he get offended but when I am disregarded, I have to just understand and wait until he feels like throwing me a bone. Doesn't seem fair to me.
posted by The Missus Complains at 2:43 AM
3 Comments:
8 miles? Geez. I'll be lucky to get in a half mile! LOL
BTW, I just recently got married, and Im the same way with my wife. I think she feels the way you do. Im not sure why we men act the way we do. I've always told her I would try to do better, but it always ends up the same.
I'm with sheriff.
You're both doing the same thing. I see no double standard.
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